Issue No. 01
A dating workbook
A digital dating journal for women who want the butterflies and the clarity
Know what you want before someone lovely makes you forget.
Dating can be hopeful, hilarious, confusing and far too easy to overthink. Love, Decoded gives you a safe space to work out what you want, notice what is actually in front of you and make dating work for your life.
One thoughtful workbook. One simple payment. No subscription.
Love,
Warm · Romantic · Open
Shared effortClear intentionsEmotional safety
THE GROUP CHAT CAN ONLY TAKE YOU SO FAR
“Sometimes you need somewhere quieter to hear what you actually think.”
Butterflies, meet better questions
A little romance. A lot more clarity.
This is a guided journal that starts with the fun parts of attraction, then helps you turn those discoveries into a clearer picture of the love and relationship that genuinely suit you.
By the end, you have a personal relationship blueprint to return to before, during and after dating someone new.
A GLIMPSE AT A PERSONALISED RESULT
The Safe Harbour
Warmth · Friendship · Belonging
One of the romantic patterns you may discover inside the journal.WarmthEaseTrustKindnessBelonging
What your heart may be responding toThe desire to feel accepted, emotionally safe and loved without performance.
The counterfeitPassivity or avoidance mistaken for gentleness.
Five stages. One much clearer dating life.
Start with you. Then look at him.
The order matters. You decide what you want before a particular person has the chance to become the exception to all of it.
01
Meet your love energy
Notice how you naturally show up when you really like someone.
02
Meet your book boyfriend
Find the fictional man who gets you every time and discover what that attraction may be telling you.
03
Build your relationship blueprint
Name the life, values and everyday relationship you could genuinely be happy inside.
04
Check in after every date
Use the reusable Date Check-In to record what happened, compare it with your Blueprint and decide what you want to learn next.
05
After five dates
Notice your patterns, keep what is working and update the way you want to move forward.
What it all becomes
A clear, practical picture of the relationship you want.
The journal turns your answers into a personalised Blueprint. It brings your non-negotiables, preferences and real-life compatibility into one place, so attraction is never the only thing making the decision.
My Relationship Blueprint
The futureI want commitment that is clear, mutual and moving somewhere real.
How love feelsWarm, dependable and honest, including when the conversation is difficult.
What I will recogniseWords and actions match. Effort is shared. I can be myself without shrinking.
Ready when you are
Make dating feel a little more like yours.
Move through the journal at your own pace. Return after dates. Let your blueprint become clearer as your life does.
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- All five guided stages
- Your personalised results
- Your relationship blueprint
- Reusable date check-ins
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